Having been to Hedo 2 a year ago we wanted to try Desire. He will write your name down and tell you your lounge chair number and then they are yours as long as you show up in the next two hours and sit in them. Desire offers 24 hour Room Service (at an additional charge). One couple we met said they did it six times in a day. The resort is not huge so for you to walk from one side to the other would take less than 2 minutes so really no room is too far away. Two restaurants require reservations and most require men to wear pants at dinner. Read about our Five Senses Fantasy erotic experience at the spa here. There are 4 rooms directly below the Jacuzzi. Do I Need To Tell Him I Cheated? Across the board the desserts were disappointing, but for me that was a blessing in disguise.SERVICE- the service was great. The best is the erotic show displays which is basically a group of dancers and some sexy dance and performance moves. Email us and ask a question if you like. This group was committed to their own relationships but usually went home without seeing any kind of action as they were just testing the waters. In defence of Desire, the restaurant was full and we were seated next to two VERY loud, large tables of revelers. Everyone has a different reason for his or her preference. It was super fun and everyone was very respectful. The pool is large enough for what happens there but not enough lounges aroun the pool if you prefer that. If you choose to go topless or naked at the pool, or on the beach or roof-top spa lounge, this is totally your choice. All have floor-to-ceiling glass windows and doors that lead to furnished balconies with either garden or ocean views. The disco stays going for as long as people want to dance, but youll find the more adventurous couples start peeling off around midnight and heading to the jacuzzi. And, like any vacation the fun is on you. And I was remembering what I loved about him. The resorts describe themselves as an "elegant and exclusive, clothing-optional, couples-only resorts." That is right on the mark. All the restaurants were good. Additionally, there's a Quiet Pool with its own swim-up bar and jet features. Several hot tubs are found throughout, but guests have complained that they close on the early side -- 7 p.m. during our stay. Sign-Up to receive information for upcoming lifestyle trips. Our guests are mature and sophisticated; a "live and let live" philosophy is key to the enjoyment of an unforgettable vacation. I was so thankful for all the reviews/posts so I might know what to expect. Desire is a resort and not a "club" as many of you know, and does not sell day passes for anyone with money to walk through and look at guests sunbathing naked. A paradise for couples only, this is the place where you can reinvent the meaning of passion, forget inhibitions and enjoy adventures that go . This review is the subjective opinion of a Tripadvisor member and not of Tripadvisor LLC. On the flip side, this kind of experience could probably also show you a side of your partner that you dont like. They give you champagne and a cool towel upon arrival. We will be back for Sure. You can see what you want to see and do what you want to do. Limos provide upholstered leather interiors and come equipped with entertainment options, beer/water/soda, and professional drivers that allow you to relax when starting your vacation. Hedonism is three times the size of Desire Riviera Maya with close to 300 rooms and it sits on 20 acres of beautiful landscape. Its situated between acres of mangrove swamps take the beware of crocodile signsseriously (we had five, 2-meter crocs swim towards us a few feet from the edge of the road outside the resort when we got out of the car) along with an interesting array of jungle birds and animals including a baby coatimundi (wild jungle raccoons that are social, curious and let you pet them on your way to dinner). The vibe at Temptation is friendly and relaxed. Its a very small, quaint resort with a staff that is hard to beat. The Naked Hot-Tub After Midnight About 90% of the stories you have heard about Hedonism happens on the nude side, and the setting for more than half of those stories was the nude hot-tub after midnight. Temptation, for example, has a couples-only aphrodisiac restaurant. We really cant rave about the service more. Room 2414 was a garden room but we could still see the ocean from our so it was very nice. For the most part, being naked in public is not as weird as it sounds. There is a couples-only playroom off of the dance floor in each resort. Im not one for food art You know the type. Meanwhile, down the. By subscribing to this BDG newsletter, you agree to our. However, there will be several employees that will go over and above to make your experience a wonderful one. I had to buy a small jar of instant coffee (instant coffee is not ideal, however it trumped the resorts coffee hands down) and I would bring it with me to breakfast and just ask for hot water. The entire hotel is clothing optional so you can feel free to be naked or not, by the pool, on the beach as long as you dont take your saggy balls to the buffet. Recently spent a week at this exciting resort with my spouse. Wanted us to experience them all. Sue McGarvie is a clinical sex therapist and syndicated talk show host who writes, If I hear from another increase-your-desire book that advocates date nights and lighting candles, Im going to run screaming into the night. She has reviewed couples resorts in South Africa, Cancun, Los Cabos, and St. Marten and she is working on a book (as yet untitled) about hitting your 50th wedding anniversary still chasing each other around the house. Visit her website, SexWithSue.com. The large elevated hot tub (which is off-limits to management and only manned by a bartender and one cleaning staff for the mountain of towels being used) gets going about 4 pm and is the place to socialize until couples start getting ready for dinner at 7. Be mesmerized by our deluxe all-inclusive program featuring spicy pool parties, signature theme nights, superior food and . 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For this reason, my review is long but includes all you will ever need to know. There is a large elevated hot tub at Maya and a large ground level hot tub at Pearl. 5. There are different types of restaurants for food, all of which are inclusive. Martin Good, the charming General Manager said that they had purchased the vacant land next door, and were building another 40 units to deal with the occupancy levels, as you will struggle to get in any week during high season. Food is good with variety. Resorts with European-style Sunbathing (Topless Sunbathing) These hotels and resorts allow women to go topless at a designated area such as a swimming pool or a section of a beach set aside specifically for topless sunbathing. And I didn't feel ashamed about being sexual. Personally, I do not mind the daytime rest because the nightlife is what defines Hedo. At Desire Riviera Maya Resort, every desire, no matter how mild or wild, can be exquisitely fulfilled. All Rights Reserved. 4 Food. The Gym is hot and they do not provide fans. Desires concept is certainly upscale, and anyone who tried the couple Desire massage (which included very sensuous touching, and a guided happy ending in a private room) raved about it. The rooms are beautiful; the food is above average even though I find most of their meals to be a bit salty. Ladies, you may want to pack a 75 watt bulb in your purse. . The ideal fantasy, of course, but unfortunately, all that fantasizing never played out past its dreamlike state. Nightlife spots like Coco Bongo and Senor Frog's are a 17-minute drive south, while La Isla shopping mall is about a 25-minute drive away. If you own a lap top, you can access the internet for free in the computer room, because that room is WiFi. Generally speaking, a vice is defined as an act that is viewed as pleasurable for some and wicked or detrimental to others. The 430 guest rooms and suites are divided between the main building and the exclusive Tower (109 rooms) that opened in 2017. But you won't get the excitement of experiencing something new unless you, well, do something new. The tone is entertaining and playful during the day, rather than overtly sexual, and the evening theme is more erotic. Before going to Desire, we read and re-read the reviews to make sure we were making the right decision. There is never a dull moment at this beachfront property, which features activity-packed swimming pools, theme nights, and risqu live shows. We spent the next few months counting down the days until the trip, but a few weeks before it, we hit a rough patch. In fact, we regularly circumnavigate the globe to visit newly opened properties to stay ahead of the curve. 3 Theme Nights. STP provides luxury for your arrival to and from Cancun International Airport. They have 5-6 round beds in there. The beach area is small compared to other resorts, but shaded sunbeds offer a quiet spot to relax. There is never any pressure for you to wear anything, not wear anything or participate in any activities. There is a sea wall of sorts that separate the beach access and so rarely do you see people strolling the beach beyond that wall. On the downside, some guests have complained of noise reaching rooms, hot tubs closing too early, and dress codes at the restaurants. Couples are welcome to play at their comfort level on the beds; youll see every level. Review tags are currently only available for English language reviews. Apparently, couples frolicking romantically on the beach beds were a common sight in the past. It Is What It Is! Overall, the process in getting to Jamaica was 10+ hours from my doorstep to room #2128, which was a standard room just one building away from the nude pool in . If you want to be adventurous, they have local breakfast cuisine too. Popular clothes-free resorts include Orient Beach Resort in St. Martin, Hidden Beach Resort, and Desire Resorts of Mexico. Youll need to make a reservation sometime during the day. In fact we expected more! The resort was totally booked during our stay but the resort never seemed crowded. 8 Playroom. However, please watch for promotional deals whereas the cost of your transfers can be free if offered and selected. By the end, I was no longer fantasizing about being single. Throughout the day and night are optional entertainment, ranging from foam parties and lingerie shows to theme nights with DJs such as "Angels and Devils.". There is no getting jumped in the lobby fear that some people perceive happens at lifestyle friendly resorts. (I never saw anyone have sex there between 4p-7p. All you have to do is reserve a couple of lounge chairs in the morning on your way to breakfast with Daniel. Renovations completed in 2017 gave the resort a colorful, modern design with a futuristic feel. Kind regards. A couples- only playroom off of the dance floor was popular for about an hour a night (after 11 pm), and was the only other condoned, sex-friendly zone in the resort. The play room is in a tent while the other is being remodeled. It all depends on what you're looking for. Tulum and its ruins are just under a two-hour drive, and the popular Chichen Itza ruins are two-and-a-half hours away by car. 6 Pool . Too much or the wrong stuff makes you feel overwhelmed at home and always in need of a vacation to escape the chaos! Known to most as Hedo 2, this hotel sits right at the top of the world famous 7-mile beach in the tourist capital of the country, Negril. Well, we come bearing good news. No, all forms of sex are prohibited at the pool, beach and public areas of the hotel. This is not discount travel, and within an eight days time span, 90% of the guests turn over. Either way, you have to go with an open mind. The hotel offers a side of the beach where getting naked is mandatory and a clothing optional side for those who do not wish to expose their below average wiener lol. And again!! You make friends easily, and most people are happy to tell you about themselves. For me, this hotel is ideal for a week away with a group of 5 or 6 couples if you are looking to have some exclusive fun and you are not necessarily searching for a non-stop party. Wether it's on a chartered cruise, a take-over of an all inclusive resort, or a festival hosted at a top party destination, you can find it on Vacationparties.com . Yes, we do have late check out available, based on occupancy and there is an additional cost. There is something about Mexican waiters that let them show their appreciation of you, without ever being schwarmy. For this reason, my review is long but includes all you will ever need to know. During our third day there, my parter and I had sex four times. Yes. Everyone was very accepting of different bodies, no one was disrespectful and everyone felt included. For guests who prefer certain premium brands or ones that we do not ordinarily stock, a reasonable surcharge is made. 4 Food. People who suck are just as welcome as people who are pretty good. A la carte eateries serve Mexican, Asian, Italian, and seafood cuisines. Outside was really not impressive. More guests are couples than singles, and they tend to be in the 35 to 45 age range, which is a bit younger than the Desire Riviera Maya Pearl Resort and Desire Riviera Maya Resort, both of which are couples-only clothing-optional resorts. You dont need to pay $20 a day for a beach bed. Overall this place is hard to beat. Tower rooms have access to the building's rooftop pool and bar, plus they gain additional perks such as swag bags, free adult TV channels, an exclusive room service menu, and free calls to the U.S. and Canada. Normally, I dont like the wall hair dryers. Sometimes there are play chairs and sometimes a swing, depends on the time of year. ROOM- Our room (# 2414) was at the far left end of the resort and the pool /Jacuzzi were at the far left. I desperately hoped our vacation would provide that. Also, they have Porn playing on two flat screen televisions and various couples having sex. Among those who like sex with accessories, vibrators tend to get a lot of love. For info on these editor-selected items, click to visit the sellers site. And everyone is understandably curious and wanted to see if the participants are having longer, or more interesting sex than they are. The property is average as far as resorts go, but they make up for that with great customer service. At night, I found it not bright enough to put on make-up. Please check our partner sites when booking to verify that details are still correct. They are couple only resorts that are clothing optional in many areas and are Lifestyle "friendly". It deterred those who really enjoyed rolling in the surf and had loved the freedom to be intimate in the Sea, but overall the tone on the beach tended to be more romantic than sexual. Breakfast was great!! Wednesday, is called Eyes Wide Shut. 8 Playroom. Downtown Cancun can be reached in about 10 minutes by car. If you dont bring a laptop, you have to pay a small charge to use their computers. With two other hot couples, we hopped a cab to explore the "other" resortDesire Pearl. 7 Disco. Couples frolick romantically on the beach beds during the day. Happy. My wife and I are more beach people and we struggled to get a bed. After all, nothing says break from the norm quite like roaming around in your true, natural state. I stopped feeling the excitement I used to feel around him. This group was friendly but was really only interested in meeting other lifestylers. While they market to the same audience, these two hotels offer two totally different experiences, and in my honest opinion, neither of them will be able to recreate what the other has to offer. What was a tired and surprisingly uncomfortable nightclub has been transformed into a very attractive and vibrant late night gathering area. A few couples grumbled about the evil bed police, stopping their from Here to Eternity wave crashing. The immigrations area is the size of a small gymnasium, maybe three basketball courts, and it was jammed with literally hundreds of travellers. Desire is a resort and not a "club" as many of you know, and does not sell day passes for anyone with money to walk through and look at guests sunbathing naked. Of course the beach area and the beds are nude friendly. celine2232, We recently met someone that is actually an owner at Temptation for like 6 years now. Sleek rooms have balconies, free Wi-Fi, and minibars, but some bathrooms are small. Our bartenders continually add new favorites that will help you stay cool and wet your whistle. For a clothing optional resort, this place is fine. 1 Room. Dear Guests, Thank you so much for your review. 2023 BDG Media, Inc. All rights reserved. Yes, all meals - snacks, buffets and gourmet dinners - are included in the price of your stay at Desire Resort Riviera Maya. Anything the resort could control, they managed very well. KattenKabinet: The Curious Cat Museum of Amsterdam, Six Places in Reykjavik for Licorice: Love it or Hate It, NY Botanical Gardens Delightful Orchid Show, Theresienstadt: Czechias Country Club Concentration Camp, A Summer of Excitement at Dallas Perot Museum, Fairmont Century Plaza Brings Glitz to Century City LA. We have been there when there has been a complete takeover from a Lifestyles Group and we have been there when there are just couples trying to reconnect. Get Even More From Bustle Sign Up For The Newsletter. 6 Pool . Desire Resort does not include airport transfers in the cost of the room. Some of the rooms are realy out of date and need to be remodeled. Luckily, there are plenty of resorts in the Caribbean and Mexico that not only allow, but also encourage visitors to bare it all in, Meeting new people and seeing fresh places is something that unites every traveler during their journey. If you choose, you can go in there as a couple, and just watch.SWINGERS/LIFESTYLERS During our vacation (1 week) we met several couples maybe 6 or 7 total. The rooms are very basic and provide 3-star accommodation at the most. But for open-minded couples who like to swing, the opportunity to meet other like-minded adults on vacation can be a challenge, especially if you dont know where to look. We offer a wide selection of internationally known brands. If you are thinking about going to Desire Cancun, stop thinking and go. However it took us two days to find the door leading into it, and with no windows, any active play certainly wasnt in your face. Guests here have access to all the facilities and eateries at next-door Iberostar Cancun, plus there are an ocean-view infinity pool, The 30-room Casa Turquesa Boutique Hotel is a four-pearl property located directly on Cancuns beachfront with stunning sea views. Both Desire Riviera Maya and Desire Riviera Pearl have managed to combine romance and nudity in the best possible ways and like weve never experienced. The bright rooms are chic and decorated in sandy, neutral tones; all feature fully equipped kitchens, furnished, Looking for a warm spot to let loose and indulge on spring break? As a lifestyle travel specialist, whenever I visit events, clubs or even go on social sites, I get constantly asked which of the two primary lifestyle resorts is the best. It can get wilder depending on the flavor of groups staying any particular week, but the concern that one young man had before coming to Desire of being afraid to leave his wife alone while he went to the bathroom for fear she would be mauled was completely unfounded. Needless to say, I love the Hedo staff. Monday is Black Tie/High Heels. However, for the most part, people were simply flirty and friendly in and around the hot tub, and exceptionally respectful of couples who were only into each other. 1 Room. Couples Only at Desire Resort Riviera Maya. Through horses, a man feels an irrepressible duty to move in harmony with his pain. Pool Chairs: Equal at . Lock in the lowest price from these sites. The next third was what we call exploratory lifestylers or nudists. 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